Saturday, July 02, 2005
well first of all, it has come to my attention that my music dont work.. so i've decided to take action. i found out that my music was hidden and needed to be clicked in order to play.. as my blog is a "dark" site, i used my chemical romance song : Helena. but i thought of something.. what if You the readers of my blog prefer a different song? i want to make that the reading of my blog is a leasureable one thus i've put a new music system so you can your own song! GREAT? am i a genius or what? okay.. shall not crap too much..
ok.. the papers have been writing alot of articles on one blogger.. which is known as sarongpartygirl, FYI she's the one who posts nude pictures of herself on her blog BUT has taken it down on account to her love ones. what was your reaction when you heard about this?shocked?outraged?not surprising? well each of us has our own view. for me.. i was surprised that one whould do such a thing.. but i was not at all outraged by it.. in fact this lady has my repect. She treats her body like a temple, and she loved it and is not ashame. i'm not saying that whoever poses nude gains my repect but this lady(sarongpartygirl) is just being who she is and bearing her true self. God created our body.. we are his art work.. she's just one particular creation who just aint shame about showing this masterpeice. i'm quite sadden that denise keller disses her, she's one good VJ and should have been more open since she's from MTV.
Yes in times we need to be conservative. i know i am one.. and that's why i admire those who are more open.. open to facts that cant be ignored or denied.There's a difference in being open minded and dirty minded. If i say i think SEX is great, would you say i'm open or would you be like some childish singaporeans saying " EeEeE you're so pervertic!" ? if it's so, are your parents pervertic then? they had sex to give you life? so what? they had unpleasurable sex?although i'm still a virgin and shall remain one till marriage, that dont mean i'm abnormal and hate sex. i made this decision because i want to make the man i'm going to marry in the future know that i've been saving it for him. It's a big sacrifice you know.. it's like a world without pleasure!
We are singaporeans, and many calls us Asians. Does Asians stands for achieving sex is a #1 sin?
Why are we so close minded, look at the caucasians, most of them are open minded but here? if you have sex people look down on you.. disses you call you cheap. having sex is not being cheap a sult and a whore is really the cheap ones.. but if you have sex out of passion (even b4 marriage) it doesnt stick a sign labelling you cheap. i encourage the new generation of singapore and rest of the asian countries to take a step forward on becoming open minded but with maturity.. not be dirty but open to views and facts that sexuality cant be denied.. whether you or me is going to be more open minded or not, so long if things happen just keep our mouth shut for we dont have a right to judge people due to things we are not open about.
To sarongparty girl: i neither fully supported what you did nor totally condamn what you did but i feel that you're strong to withstand what people say about you. you have my support on being open and am very glad to hear you took it down on account to your love ones, you have my respect and also i love the way you write, many people are able to see the flaws in others easily.. but seldom do people see the good side of a person.. you are very knowledgable and it shows in your writing.. i wish you all the best in your future and hope people will stop dissing you..
well that's all for today i guess.. lazy to do my homework and all.. i'm hungry.. where's my dinner?!?!?!?!?!
